Transform Your Relationships with Confidence
Shift from being unheard, unappreciated, or misunderstood in your relationships to being respected, admired, and honored by your partner.

Feeling Unheard, Unappreciated, or Misunderstood?
Tired of conversations that often end in conflict or disconnection?
Confused by what is expected of you in your relationships?
Frustrated that you can’t seem to meet your partner’s needs?
Don’t feel appreciated for what you do?
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Does this sound like you?
If so relationship coaching could help you.
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My relationship coaching provides a space to explore these challenges and discover a new way to approach relationships—one that’s authentic, grounded, and effective. I help individuals navigate the complexities of modern relationships, whether with a partner, family, colleagues, or even themselves.
Benefits of Working Together
Together I will help you create real change while still supporting what you need and desire in your relationship. Specifically you will experience these:

Feel heard, appreciated, and valued in your relationships.
Learn how to shift your approach and communicate with strength and clarity, so you feel truly heard, appreciated, and respected in your relationships.

Learn how to express love and experience being loved in return.
Master the art of expressing love through actions and words that resonate with your partner, and open yourself up to experiencing love in return.

Build trust, intimacy, and connection with your partner.
Strengthen your relationship by creating a safe container where both you and your partner feel secure, valued and understood.

Step into your role as a strong, supportive partner in your relationship and embrace your authentic self.
By stepping into your role as a strong, supportive partner, you'll create a foundation of trust and respect in your relationship. Embracing your authentic self allows you to show up with confidence and connect deeply with your partner.

Improve communication to avoid conflict and feel more at ease.
Develop the skills to communicate effectively and avoid unnecessary arguments.

Gain clarity about what you truly want from relationships and how to it.
This means understanding your needs, desires, and values. It helps you identify what’s missing, set clear expectations, and take actionable steps to build the fulfilling connections you seek.

Why work with me?
Insight from Personal Experience: My 34 years in a long-term marriage gave me a deep understanding of men’s challenges and perspectives in relationships. I’ve walked this path and know what it takes to build trust, respect, and connection over time.
Relational Expertise: Drawing from my training and my work as a Tai Chi and health coach for men, I bring a holistic approach that integrates emotional and relational skills with grounded, practical strategies.
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A Safe Space for Growth: I offer a unique perspective that helps you feel understood and supported. Together, we’ll explore relationships in a way that feels empowering, authentic, and aligned with your values.
I’ve already tried everything, what makes this different?
​Relational Life Therapy (RLT) differs from traditional relationship therapy by focusing on immediate, practical changes rather than long, exploratory sessions. RLT emphasizes personal accountability, helping individuals recognize and shift unhealthy patterns quickly. It provides direct, actionable tools to create deeper, more authentic connections, fostering rapid transformation in relationships.
I’m on the brink of divorce. Will this help save my marriage?
Working with me will help you address the root causes of disconnection and conflict in your marriage. You’ll gain tools to improve communication, rebuild trust, and strengthen your emotional connection. By focusing on these core issues, you’ll create a solid foundation for a healthier, more resilient relationship.
How many sessions will it take before I see a change in my relationship?
You may start noticing a difference in your relationship after just 1-2 sessions.
Will working with you involve discussing my childhood?
It may include exploring your upbringing, the patterns you learned through observation, and how you adapted to meet your needs
I’m not in a relationship.
Will this benefit me in future relationships?
It will help you develop healthier relationship patterns and greater self-awareness, even if you're not currently in a romantic relationship. You'll gain valuable tools to improve your relationships with family, friends, coworkers, and yourself, creating stronger, more fulfilling connections in all areas of your life.
How easy will this be to apply to my relationship?
Like any skill, developing strong relational abilities takes practice. If you’re willing and open, you can start applying these techniques right away to strengthen and repair your marriage or relationship.
Does this work for everyone? Nothing seems to ever work for me.
Everyone is unique, but if you're open to changing old behavior patterns and learning new relational skills, you'll see improvements in your relationships.
What if I’m not seeing any improvements after working with you for a while?
You can end sessions at any time. I charge by the hour, or you can choose a package of 5 sessions at a discounted rate. Any unused sessions will be refunded.